Divorce and The Holidays
Kevin Miller Kevin Miller

Divorce and The Holidays

The holidays can be challenging after a divorce, but there are some tips and strategies that can help:

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SelfCare
Tessa James Tessa James

SelfCare

Self-care is essential to navigate a divorce and recover from its effects. Divorce is one of the most stressful events someone can experience. Consequently, divorce can debilitate someone's mental and physical health. That is why self-care is a must.

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An Irresistible Offer for New Clients
Tessa James Tessa James

An Irresistible Offer for New Clients

Are you struggling to either plan and leave your spouse or in the midst of a difficult divorce?

This Spring/Summer of 2024, I have an irresistible offer for you. One month+ of custom-tailored coaching sessions. 

This package includes an additional bonus coaching session at the end of the month for clients who sign up for a month’s worth of coaching. This extra session can help you solidify your progress and address any lingering concerns.

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Realistic Expectations within the World of Divorce
Kevin Miller Kevin Miller

Realistic Expectations within the World of Divorce

Divorce is a life-altering event that comes with emotional, financial, and legal challenges. When entering this challenging journey, it's crucial to manage expectations wisely. Unrealistic expectations can not only prolong the process but also add unnecessary stress and financial strain.

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How the Brain Prioritizes Information
Tessa James Tessa James

How the Brain Prioritizes Information

Dr. Tara Swart, a neuroscientist, has focused on how the brain processes and prioritizes information. She is an expert on how we can retrain our brains to attract what we want. It's called manifestation. Dr. Swart’s speaks from a scientific perspective about what manifestation actually is, and how we already have the tools to leverage the law of attraction to our advantage.

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Taking the High Road in Divorce 
Tessa James Tessa James

Taking the High Road in Divorce 

“Taking the High Road” means shifting the focus toward an amicable approach to divorce during a possible High-Conflict divorce. It's creating the best intentions for yourself and others who are impacted by your presence—be they family, friends, co-workers, people you do business with, neighbors, and anyone within your community circle—and choosing to act as your best self.

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Impact of a Cancer Diagnosis
Tessa James Tessa James

Impact of a Cancer Diagnosis

When a cancer diagnosis is introduced to a marriage it can bring additional pressure, distress and changes to how a couple’s relationship typically operates. In addition to being a Divorce Coach, I am a cancer survivor who went through a divorce…

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Providing Support for Attorneys and Their Clients
Tessa James Tessa James

Providing Support for Attorneys and Their Clients

During the very difficult process of divorce, coaching from a certified, qualified professional like myself can provide support and problem-solving assistance to augment legal representation successfully.

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Why Do I Work for Men and Divorcing Dads?
Tessa James Tessa James

Why Do I Work for Men and Divorcing Dads?

When I began my practice, I noticed there really are not many divorce coaches for men, and they need support! I’m often asked the question “why men?” So, I thought I would take a moment to explain my why!

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High-Conflict Divorces: What to Consider
Tessa James Tessa James

High-Conflict Divorces: What to Consider

In this post I explore important considerations for parents and their children during this difficult time. Working with me as your Divorce Coach will reduce your overall stress and build emotional resilience.

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Sunset Session
Tessa James Tessa James

Sunset Session

Your Final Stage in the Divorce Process

Your marital settlement agreement doesn’t mean that you’re divorced. Only your divorce decree means that you’re divorced. Your marital settlement agreement will ultimately become your divorce, but it needs to be reviewed by a judge first.

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Pre-Game Strategy
Tessa James Tessa James

Pre-Game Strategy

LET'S GET ORGANIZED
Being well-prepared before you meet with your attorney will likely save you money! Whether it is checking off my pre-file checklist or coming up with a total exit strategy, I can assist you.

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What Happens to the House in Divorce? 
Tessa James Tessa James

What Happens to the House in Divorce? 

There are three basic options for dividing a community property house in a California divorce: a buyout, an immediate sale and a deferred sale.

Let’s look at each of these in turn.

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